It is hard to believe that I am a quarter century old
now. Earlier today I was thinking about
all of the beautiful places I have celebrated birthday from Thailand, various
mission trips across the US, Olivet Float Trips, Costa Rica, and then my second
birthday here in Paraguay. It never
seems to be easier celebrating so far
from home but I was blessed enough to be able to talk to both of my parents
today and helping someone else celebrate their birthday was a great way to
celebrate. This year I was able to
celebrate my birthday with one of Alcides’ nieces who shares my birthday, but
she only turned 5 while I turned 25. So
we went into Caaguazu with Alcides and his sister, mom, and many other nieces
to help her celebrate her 5th birthday. Below you will be able to see just a few of
the many photos of her birthday celebration.
On Friday I spent the entire day baking making 48 cupcakes,
4 loaves of whole wheat bread, and a couple of other desserts. I had some great helpers though 2 of my
nieces Adriana and Diana who were a big help and we had a lot of fun both
making and decorating the cupcakes. This
is a picture of them taste testing the icing to make sure it was edible for
everyone else.
A photo of Adriana and I making up the icing for the second
batch of cupcakes, we ended up making 24 white cake cupcakes and 24 chocolate
and then had fun making chocolate frosting as well as dyed pink and blue
frosting. In the end we ended up with
very colorful and festive cupcakes with enough to go around.
In the afternoon we had a wonderful visitor from Annie (my
closest PCV) that came over and helped us finish decorating cupcakes. She also brought me a wonderful carrot and
coconut cake that we took over to Alcides’ house to have a little mini early
birthday celebration.
Alcides getting his hair cut in preparation for the
traveling into town. It was very
interesting to me how much work everyone went to before we went into town. They collected mandioca, all the women washed
their hair, collected corn and fresh fruit, and just generally got all cleaned
up for the trip into town.
So this doesn’t have to do with my birthday but those are
the two baby pigs that Alcides worked a week in the field for and his brother
made a very nice pen for them and we are starting to feed them so they will be
nice and big for Christmas/New Year’s celebrations. In the US we don’t think nearly this far
ahead but just go to the grocery store and buy a turkey or ham. Here if you want meat for your family for the
holidays and you are smart you buy various animals now (calves, chicks, piglets,
ducklings, etc.) and then grow them out yourself because if you wait to buy
just the meat around the holidays the prices skyrocket. So needless to say at least one of these
piglets we will be butchering and eating for the holidays!
Just a cute picture of me with one of my kittens that is
almost all grown up now that lives with Alcides and his family. At first they hated cats and didn’t even want
one but now Raul (the kitten) is a large part of the family and is spoiled more
than any animal I have seen in Paraguay.
It might be due to the fact that he has eaten all of the rats they used
to have but whatever the reason Raul is in good hands and is part of the
family.
For our birthday celebration we came into Caaguazu and for
lunch we had a wonderful duck and rice stew but in order for that to happen we
had to kill the duck. I didn’t really help
too much but rather used the excuse to take photos so I wouldn’t have to be the
one to kill it. This is just a photo of
Alcides with his mom plucking the duck.
As per Paraguay traditions for birthdays the people hosting
the party (or their mother) makes a whole bunch of food to give to everyone
else. It isn’t the US where people throw
parties for you and you just show up and enjoy.
Anyway so Edie (Alcides’ sister) had already made up all of the food the
day before and then I spent about 4 hours frying it all.
Alcides and our niece Diana standing in front of all the
little plates of food that we made up.
For the birthday girl, Janina, her parents had a bounce
house brought in so all the party goers had a fantastic time playing around.
Just a picture of me with one of the cupcakes I made that I called
my birthday cake, complete with my dollar store purchase of cupcake molds and
little flags that read Happy Birthday!
Alcides and I with my cupcake.
Although it might not look too cold it was in fact only about 60 degrees
with a cold southern wind (we are in the middle of winter), not the 100+ temps
that I am normally used to in the US for my summer birthday.
Just a family photo with Alcides and his family standing in
front of the themed party she had of Pippa (which is a popular cartoon pig here
in Paraguay).
On Sunday we had a small celebration for my birthday since I
didn’t want to take away from the 5 year olds party, so we had a wonderful asado (BBQ) filled with lots of yummy
grilled pork, rice salad, and leftover sopa.
So overall I had a fantastic birthday filled with good
company and great food. This week I will
be heading on a short vacation to Argentina to help celebrate my birthday with
Alcides. So stay tuned for a blog post our
trip to visit Iguazu, the third trip there for me but the first for Alcides
ever outside of Paraguay, so it should be a lot of fun!
In the blink of an
eye, everything can change. So forgive
often and love with all your heart. You
may never know when you may not have that chance again.